Tuesday 24 July 2012

Ladies: 5 Signs You're Not Ready for Commitment.


Gbam! Now its time for the ladies... Here are some signs to show that yoy ain't ready for commitment... Fasten your seat belt... weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

You Spend More Time with Your Girlfriends
If you'd rather see your girls three nights out of the week, and spend a night to yourself at least once a week, then you're only leaving one or two nights for your man. That's a woman who's looking for freedom, not commitment... Huh. true isn't it?

No One Knows Who He Is
Do the following people know who your man is?
Your parents
Your siblings
Your roommate
Your best friend(s)
Your friends in general
Your grandparents
Your boss or co-workers

A woman who wants to commit wants everyone to know who she's dating, because she can't quit gushing about him. If the significant people in your life need to ask you if you're still seeing what's his name, then you're holding out.



Feelings
Women who are ready to commit want to have conversations about committing. If you were ready to commit, you'd be:

Reaffirming your affections for your partner
Asking your partner how he feels about you (and hoping for good results!)
Talking about where you see the relationship heading
Meeting each others' parents
Discussing moving in together
Talking more seriously about your futures together, including marriage and kids
If these all sound like conversations you'd rather avoid, you're not ready to commit.

Keeping Your Exes Around
When you're happy, committed, and secure in your relationship, you don't feel the need to stay in touch with former partners. But you're just friends, you say? People can be friends with their exes, you say? Don't kid yourself. People can be nice to their exes. You can wish them well in life and be genuinely glad to see them should you run into each other on occasion, but no one keeps in regular contact with an ex unless he or she is on the backburner "just in case."

If you won't admit it to yourself, at least recognize that it means you're not satisfied with the attention you're getting from your partner. It's probably keeping you from diving head-first into the commitment pool.

You Forget About Him

True, your mind doesn't need to be focused on him 24/7, but a woman who's committed to her man is pretty good at keeping him in mind. If he calls and she can't answer the phone or misses the call, she makes sure to return it as soon as she has a second. Some women even go the extra mile to send a text or an e-mail to say they noticed he tried to get in touch, and they'll return the favor soon.

If you're normally on top of things when it comes to your phone until he calls or texts you, that's a bad sign. The same is true if you forget about errands he asked you to run, plans he wanted to make with you, or important things he tells you. If you don't have enough space in your brain for him, you certainly don't have enough room in your heart, either.

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2 comments:

  1. Hmmm... Ollyspice has strtd again o, tho i don't totally agree wit ur rule...

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  2. no be lie joor!

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