HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN REALLY LIKES YOU

Most ladies will never know whether a guy really likes them until they sleep with him. Awww-shit! Did I scrape on your sense of innocence and morality? Well, screw that. For a second, let's forget the mumbo-jumbo jugaboo we'll all prefer to believe and put the chips down. Without any intent on cynicism, some things are just the way they are. I recall the movie, Hitch, where some guy met a girl and said food had lost its taste, colours seemed dull, and nothing looked or felt the same. But the moment he slept with her that was it. WHAM! BAM! Thank you, ma'am! He hit the road and never saw her again.

This is not about sainthood and depravity. It’s as mysterious as the Bermuda Triangle. A girl may never know for sure whether a guy likes her before sex. And here's something even sicklier: a guy may never know how he truly feels about a girl either until he has slept with her. However, I can assure you, after the action, you won't need to ask.

OK, before you call me a dirty, slimy shit sack, please understand, I'm not advocating for people to go screwing like minks. I believe in respect and human values, and chances are good a man can come to genuinely like a woman if she can elicit these qualities from him. When a man respects a woman for some reason - either for her strong personality or her warmth and kind heartedness or her subservience or brilliance - he inadvertently likes her too. A man can also become addictively fond of a woman who respects him as a man and allows him play boss without unnecessary contentiousness.

Guys have grown more randy than history ever recorded. Ladies, too, have grown far more liberal. The easier the former find it to get under the pants of the latter, the harder it is to stick to one, and the much harder it becomes to take any time at all to know them - to subsequently like them. But when a lady conquers this demon in any man, the first thing she realizes is that he takes a deep interest in all affairs that matter to her. He always wants to be with her - not necessarily in private places. He's happy and inspired when she comes by. He always wants to twine his plans around her. Especially, his friends respect her, which is an indication of how he upholds her before them.

There's no telling whether these signs will come before or after sex but if they are vague or absent when you need to know where he stands with you, look around your situation for the exit.

Mythrillz